What is it about creative people that make them so expert at distracting themselves? Perhaps we have a touch of ADD that in essence contributes to our creative streak. Or, maybe we were never taught good boundaries as children and we drift through life tackling projects at random, never having learned a strategy for getting through each day.
As I've matured, order has become more and more important in my life. The act of creating seems to come not from the chaotic but from the orderly. When my house is a mess, I'm thinking of laundry and dishes. At those times, creating seems almost criminal and comes with a good dose of guilt. After all, I'm neglecting the duties that benefit not only myself, but others in the home as well. With the new millenium, I have taken the time to put my life in order. I got rid of the excess in the attic and enlisted with Flylady.net to get my days under control. I've cut back on extracurricular activities and put the priority on my relationships and creative work.
Life's not perfect. I still have a day job. But I've tackled many of the skills I need to keep serenity in my days and the chaos at bay.
Need help with the chaos in your life? I recommend a twelve-step program, like the one offered through Alanon and AA.
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